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Jeans – just for the record February 13, 2007

Filed under: Beauty — urnn @ 2:14 am

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Just for my own record (and anyone out there who has the same figure as me). I found a good website called www.glam.com which tells me the perfect jeans for big thigh me. Now they are…

1. Joes Jeans Muse Wide Leg Stretch Jeans
2. Wonnha 60D Diesel
3. BCBG Max Azria Joyce Trouser Jeans
4. Citizens of Humanity Dunaway Wide Leg Stretch J…
5. Santa Monica Trouser, Dark Clean: Paige Denim
6. Hipper Jean Diesel
7. Clapton Trouser Jean, Glycerine: rock & republic

Tips for smaller butt: Look for jeans with large back pockets. They will create the illusion that your rear is smaller i.e. Chip and Pepper Blazing Jeans, True Religion Joey Twill Flare Jeans, Fawcett Indian Pocket Bootcut Jean-Antik Denim.

Where to shorten the expensive Jeans in Hong Kong: Ann & Bo on the 3rd floor (I believe) of Melbourne Plaza on Queen’s Road. Direction-wise, if you walk straight down LKF, it’s on the opposite side of the road, not too far from the major intersection.

 

Weight control: where to go February 9, 2007

Filed under: Health and Fitness — urnn @ 2:39 am

Once again, I’m back researching for a good website for keeping record of my food intake. I found a free website recommended in ehow.com (which by the way is my top 3 sites at the moment) called www.fitday.com

I can key in what I eat today, starting from breakfast and plan what I will eat at lunch time and what I will eat tonight when we are going out. So I know in advance how much cal.I ate and will be eating  and exercise accordingly. I aim to exercise in the gym to lose the approximately 290 – 350cal. and then the rest will be walking up hill or steps or any other daily activities which will burn some more, so in total I will lose approximately 500cal./day.

There’s a good website www.soyouwanna.com This website seems pretty realistic to me. I don’t like those websites which tell you it’s easy to lose weight because it’s not.

From the website:

A. My approximate energy needs / per day =Basal Metabolic Rate Body weight multiplied by 12 (for men) or 11 (for women) 158 x 11= 1738

B. Activity One third body weight multiplied by the number of hours you don’t sleep, typically 16 hours, mine is 14 158 x 1/3=  52 x 14 = 728

C. Required calories A + B = 1738 + 728 = 2466

The “Basal Metabolic Rate” is the number of calories a man of that weight would burn just to keep the heart beating, the lungs pumping. “Activity” is approximately the amount of calories a person would expend by spending his or her whole day sitting around.

If you want to lose two pounds (0.9 Kg) , simply take the daily caloric requirement you’ve already calculated and subtract 500 from it (mine is 2466 – 500 = 1966)

That means I can have three meals of 500 calories each and one snack of 200 calories or a couple of 100 calorie drinks throughout the day. Don’t forget to include drinks, by the way.  A calorie is a calorie, whether it came from a doughnut or a glass of organic prune juice.

One exception: you can eat as much celery as you want. Celery is composed almost entirely of water and fiber, and the few calories it contains are burned up in the process of chewing it. Celery is great to chew when you’re feeling hungry, which will happen. When you knock down your intake by 500 calories, your body notices and it lets you know by making you feel hungry. Ignore this. Eat lots of celery, eat low-fat, high-fiber meals, and drink lots of water.

Exercise

If you want to lose two pounds per week, we recommend that you do exercise that will burn 500 calories every day (in addition to reducing your caloric intake by 500 calories per day).

None of the activities is going to burn up 500 calories in 30 minutes, unless you’re much heavier than 150 pounds.  There are three ways to deal with this:

1) pick a strenuous exercise and do it for 45 minutes to an hour in one session;

2) do a half hour of strenuous exercise and burn the rest of the calories in a second session later (e.g., go for a run in the morning and take a walk at night); or

3) abandon your earlier ambition and just lose one pound a week (0.5kg) , which only requires you to burn 250 calories in a day.

 

Best Restaurants in Hong Kong February 8, 2007

Filed under: Food and drinks — urnn @ 3:14 am

Australian fusion cuisine : Jaspa’s 28 Staunton Street, Soho, Central Tel: 2869 0733
Best Indian : Bombay Dreams 75-77 Wyndham Street Tel: +852 2971 0001
Best Pub with character: Old China Hand G/F, 104 Lockhart Road, Wanchai
Best American : Dan Ryan’s Chicago Grill 114 Pacific Place, 88 Queensway, Admiralty Tel: (852) 2845 4600
Best Italian: Grappas132 The Mall, Pacific Place, 88 Queensway, Admiralty Tel: (852) 2868 0086
Best Greek: Olive 32 Elgin St, Soho Tel: (852) 2521 1608
Best Vietnamese : Soho Spice G/F 47 Elgin Street Soho Tel: 2521 1600
Best in Lan Kwai Fong : Hanagushi (Japanese)17-22 Lan Kwai Fong (1st floor)
Tel: 852/2521 0868
Best Dim Sum : Lei Gardens (IFC) Shop 3008-11 Tel: (852) 2295 0238
Best Korean : Myung-ga in World Trade Centre, CWB
Best Steak: La Pampa’s Argentinian Steak House
Best once-in-a-while special meals: The Peak Lookout
Seafood: Under Spicy Crab 429 Lockhart Road, Wan Chai Tel: 2573 7698
Best French private kitchen : Plats 2/f, Yu Wing Bldg, 64-66 Wellington St.
Tel: 29710808
British/Bake food: Jimmy’s Kitchen 1-3 Wyndham Street, LG/F, South China Building Tel: +852 2526 5293 Recommend: Baked Alaska.

 

Places to eat in Hong Kong February 5, 2007

Filed under: Food and drinks — urnn @ 12:50 pm

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Jade Garden: Dim Sum G/F-2/F1 Hysan Avenue, Causeway Bay Tel 2577 9332

Lunch:  dim sum
Dinner: drunken shrimp boiled in Chinese rice wine, deep-fried boneless chicken with lemon sauce, stir-fried minced pigeon served with lettuce leaves, glazed pork loin, barbecued Peking duck.

Best Buffet Spread: café TOO, Island Shangri-La Hotel, Supreme Court Road, Central (tel. 852/2820 8571, ext. 8571).

Best Burgers and Beer: Dan Ryan’s Chicago Grill, at 88 Queensway, Central (tel. 852/2845 4600), and Ocean Terminal (tel. 852/2735 6111).

Best Sunday Brunch: The Verandah, 109 Repulse Bay Rd, Repulse Bay (tel. 852/2812 2722), complete with a three-piece band. Wonderfully reminiscent of the colonial era, it features Hong Kong’s most famous Sunday spread, with main courses like eggs Benedict from a menu, a carving of the day, pasta cooked to order, sushi, dim sum, and more.

 

I love you in every language. February 5, 2007

Filed under: General — urnn @ 1:45 am

Language                Translation
——–                ———–
Afrikaans                      Ek het jou lief
Afrikaans                      Ek is lief vir jou
Albanian                       te dua
Albanian                       te dashuroj
Alentejano(Portugal)     Gosto De Ti, Porra!
Alsacien                        Ich hoan dich gear
Amharic                        Afekrishalehou
Arabic                          Ana Behibak (to a male)
Arabic                          Ana Behibek (to a female)
Arabic                          Ib’n hebbak.
Arabic                          Ana Ba-heb-bak
Arabic                          nhebuk
Arabic                          Ohiboke   (male to female)
Arabic                          Ohiboka   (female to male)
Arabic                          Ohibokoma (male or female to two males or two females)
Arabic                           Nohiboke  (more than one male or female to female)
Arabic                           Nohiboka  (male to male or female to male)
Arabic                           Nohibokoma (m. to m. or f. to two males or two females)
Arabic                           Nohibokom (m. to m. or f. to more than two males)
Arabic                           Nohibokon (m. to m. or f. to more than two females)
Arabic (not standard)     Bahibak   (female to male)
Arabic (not standard)     Bahibik   (male to female)
Arabic (not standard)     Benhibak  (more than one male or female to male)
Arabic (not standard)     Benhibik  (male to male or female to female)
Arabic (not standard)     Benhibkom (m. to m. or female to more than one male)
Assamese                      Moi tomak bhal pau
Basque                          Maitea haut
Batak                            Holong rohangku di ho
Bavarian                        I mog di narrisch gern
Bengali                          Ami tomAy bhAlobAshi
Bengali                          Ami tomake bhalobashi.
Berber                           Lakh tirikh
Bicol                              Namumutan ta ka
Bolivian Quechua           Qanta munani
Bulgarian                        Obicham te
Burmese                         Chit pa de
Cambodian                     Bon sro lanh oon
Cambodian                     Kh_nhaum soro_lahn nhee_ah
Canadian French             Sh’teme  (spoken, sounds like this)
Cantonese                       Moi oiy neya
Cantonese                       Ngo oi ney
Catalan                            T’estim   (mallorcan)
Catalan                            T’estim molt (I love you a lot)
Catalan                            T’estime  (valencian)
Catalan                            T’estimo  (catalonian)
Cebuano                          Gihigugma ko ikaw
Ceqli                                Go pyar zi
Chickasaw                       Chiholloli   (first “i” nasalized)
Chinese                            (see the entries for mandarin or cantonese!)
Corsican                           Ti tengu cara (to female)
Corsican                           Ti tengu caru (to male)
Croatian                            Ja volim tebe
Czech                               Miluji te
Czech                               MILUJU TE! (colloquial form)
Danish                              Jeg elsker dig
Dutch                               Ik hou van jou
Dutch                               Ik ben verliefd op je
Ecuador Quechua             Canda munani
English                              I love you
English                              I adore you
Esperanto                         Mi amas vin
Estonian                           Mina armastan sind
Estonian                           Ma armastan sind
Farsi                                Tora dust midaram
Farsi                                Asheghetam
Farsi (Persian)                 Doostat dAram
Filipino                            Mahal ka ta
Filipino                            Iniibig Kita
Finnish                             Mina” rakastan sinua
Flemish                            Ik zie oe geerne
French                             Je t’aime
French                             Je t’adore
Friesian                            Ik hald fan dei
Gaelic                              Ta gra agam ort
German                            Ich liebe Dich
Greek                              S’ayapo   (spoken S’ agapo, stressed on the “po” 3rd letter is lower case ‘gamma’)
Greek (old)                      Se latrevo
Greenlandic                     Asavakit
Gujrati                             Hoon tane pyar karoochhoon.
Haitian Creole                 Mwen renmen’w
Hausa                              Ina sonki
Hawaiian                         Aloha au ia ‘oe
Hebrew                           Ani ohev otach       (male to female)
Hebrew                           Ani ohev otcha       (male to male)
Hebrew                           Ani ohevet otach     (female to female)
Hebrew                           Ani ohevet otcha     (female to male)
Hindi                               Main Tumse Prem Karta Hoon
Hindi                               Mai Tumhe Pyar Karta Hoon
Hindi                               Main Tumse Pyar Karta Hoon
Hindi                               Mai Tumse Peyar Karta Hnu
Hindi                               Mai tumse pyar karta hoo
Hokkien                          Wa ai lu
Hopi                                Nu’ umi unangwa’ta
Hungarian                        Szeretlek
Hungarian                        Szeretlek te’ged
Icelandic                          Eg elska thig
Indonesian                       Saya cinta padamu    (Saya, commonly used)
Indonesian                       Saya cinta kamu            ( ” )
Indonesian                       Saya kasih saudari         ( ” )
Indonesian                       Aku tjinta padamu    (Aku, not often used)
Indonesian                       Aku cinta padamu           ( ” )
Indonesian                       Aku cinta kamu             ( ” )
Iranian                             Mahn doostaht doh-rahm
Irish                                 Taim i’ ngra leat
Italian                               Ti amo (if it’s a relationship/lover/spouse)
Italian                               Ti voglio bene (if it’s a friend, or relative)
Japanese                          Kimi o ai shiteru
Japanese                          Aishiteru
Japanese                          Chuu shiteyo
Japanese                          Ora omee no koto ga suki da
Japanese                          Ore wa omae ga suki da
Japanese                          Suitonnen
Japanese                          Sukiyanen
Japanese                          Sukiyo
Japanese                          Watashi wa anata ga suki desu
Japanese                          Watashi wa anata o aishite-imasu
Japanese                          Watakushi-wa anata-wo ai shimasu
Japanese                          Suki desu  (used at 1st time, like for a start,
                                          when you are not yet real lovers)
Javanese                           Kulo tresno
Kannada                           Naanu Ninnanu Preethisuthene
Kannada                           Naanu Ninnanu Mohisuthene
Kiswahili                           Nakupenda
Klingon                             bangwI’ SoH
Klingon                             qamuSHa’
Klingon                             qaparHa’
Korean                             No-rul sarang hae (man to woman in casual relation)
Korean                             Tangsinul sarang ha yo
Korean                             Tangshin-ul sarang hae-yo
Korean                             Tangsinul Sarang Ha Yo
Korean                             Tangshin-i cho-a-yo (i like you, in a romantic way)
Korean                             Nanun tangshinul sarang hamnida
Korean                             Nanun Dangsineul Mucheog Joahapnida
Korean                             Nanun Dangsineul Saranghapnida
Korean                             Nanun Gdaega Joa
Korean                             Nanun Gdaereul Saranghapnida
Korean                             Nanun Neoreul Saranghanda
Korean                             Gdaereul Hjanghan Naemaeum Alji
Korean                             Joahaeyo
Korean                             Saranghae
Korean                             Saranghaeyo
Korean                             Saranghapanida
Kurdish                             Ez te hezdikhem (?)
Lao                                   Koi muk jao
Lao                                   Khoi huk chau
Latin                                 Te amo
Latin                                 Vos amo
Latin (old)                         (Ego) amo te (ego, for emphasis)
Latvian                              Es milu tevi (Pronounced “Ess tevy meeloo”)
Lebanese                           Bahibak
Lëtzebuergesch                  Ech hunn dech gär
Lingala                               Nalingi yo
Lisbon lingo                       gramo-te bue’, chavalinha
Lithuanian                          TAVE MYLIU (ta-ve mee-lyu)
Lojban                               mi do prami
Luo                                   Aheri
Macedonian                      SAKAM TE!
Madrid lingo                     Me molas, tronca
Malay                               Saya cintakan mu
Malay                               Saya sayangkan mu
Malay/Indonesian              Saya sayangkan engkau
Malay/Indonesian              Saya cintakan awak
Malayalam                        Njyaan Ninne’ Preetikyunnu
Malayalam                        Njyaan Ninne’ Mohikyunnu.
Malayalam                        Ngan Ninne Snaehikkunnu
Malaysian                         Saya Cintamu
Malaysian                         Saya Sayangmu
Malaysian                         Saya Cinta Kamu
Mandarin                          Wo ai ni  (Wo3 ai4 ni3  in tonal notation)
Marathi                             me tujhashi prem karto (male to female)
Marathi                             me tujhashi prem karte (female to male)
Marathi                             Mi tuzya var prem karato
Mohawk                           Konoronhkwa
Navaho                             Ayor anosh’ni
Ndebele                            Niyakutanda
Norwegian                        Eg elskar deg  (Nynorsk)
Norwegian                        Jeg elsker deg (Bokmaal) (pronouncedyai elske dai)
Op                                    Op Lopveop Yopuop
Oriya (India-Orissa)          Mun tumaku bhala pae
Osetian                             Aez dae warzyn
Pakistani                           Mujhe Tumse Muhabbat Hai
Persian                             Tora dost daram
Pig Latin                           Ie Ovele Ouye
Polish                               Kocham Cie
Polish                               Ja cie kocham
Polish                               Yacha kocham
Polish                               Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese                       Amo-te
Portuguese (Brazilian)       Eu te amo
Punjabi                             Mai taunu pyar karda
Punjabi                             Main Tainu Pyar Karna
Quenya                             Tye-mela’ne
Romanian                          Te iubesc
Romanian                          Te Ador
Russian                             Ya vas liubliu
Russian                             Ya lyublyu tebya
Russian                             Ya polubeel s’tebya
Russian (malincaya)           Ya Tibieh Lublue
Sanskrit                             tvayi snihyaami
Scot Gaelic                       Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian                              ljubim te   (I kiss you/love you,
                                             ‘lj’ pronounced like ‘ll’ in Spanish, one sound, ‘ly’ish)
Serbocroatian                    Volim te
Serbocroatian                    Ljubim te
Shona                               Ndinokuda
Sinhalese                           Mama oyata adarei
Sioux                                Techihhila
Slovak                              lubim ta
Slovene                             ljubim te
Spanish                             Te quiero
Spanish                             Te amo
Srilankan                           Mama Oyata Arderyi
Swahili                              Nakupenda (followed by the person’s name)
Swedish                            Jag a”lskar dig
Swiss-German                  Ch’ha di ga”rn
Syrian/Lebanese                BHEBBEK (to a female)
Syrian/Lebanese                BHEBBAK (to a male)
Tagalog                             Mahal kita
Tahitian                             Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil                                 Ni yaanai kaadli karen     (You love me)
Tamil                                 n^An unnaik kAthalikkinREn (I love you)
Tamil                                 Naan Unnai Kadalikiren
Tcheque                            MILUJI TE^
Telugu                               Neenu ninnu pra’mistu’nnanu
Telugu/india                       Nenu Ninnu Premistunnanu
Thai                                  Phom Rak Khun   (formal, male to female)
Thai                                  Ch’an Rak Khun  (formal, female to male)
Thai                                  Khao Raak Thoe  (affectionate, sweet, loving)
Thai                                  Phom Rak Khun
Tunisian                            Ha eh bak                     *
Turkish                             Seni seviyo*rum     (o* means o)
Turkish                             Seni Seviyurum
Turkish                             Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian                          ja tebe koKHAju  (real true love)
Ukrainian                          ja vas koKHAju
Ukrainian                          ja pokoKHAv tebe
Ukrainian                          ja pokoKHAv vas
Vietnamese                       Em ye^u anh   (woman to man)
Vietnamese                       Toi yeu em
Vietnamese                       Anh ye^u em   (man to woman)
Vlaams                              Ik hou van je
Vulcan                              Wani ra yana ro aisha
Volapük                            Löfob oli.
Welsh                               ‘Rwy’n dy garu di.
Welsh                               Yr wyf i yn dy garu di.
Welsh                               Yr wyf i yn eich caru chwi.
Yiddish                             Ich libe dich
Yiddish                             Ich han dich lib
Yiddish                             Ikh Hob Dikh Lib
Yugoslavian                      Ya te volim
Zazi                                  Ezhele hezdege (sp?)
Zulu                                  Mena Tanda Wena
Zulu                                  Ngiyakuthanda!
Zuni                                  Tom ho’ ichema

 

America’s next top model February 4, 2007

Filed under: TV and Film — urnn @ 2:39 pm

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We just finished watching America’s next top model.I’m so glad the pretentious Melrose did not win, not that it matters to me in anyway. But I feel that if someone like her won, that would be so wrong. We need to send out the message to the world that it’s better to be natural, ture to yourself and others and be NICE to people, not competing ALL THE TIME.

Melrose girl is a good looking girl, very good looking in fact. However, if you made that many people on the show, plus me (and my husband), dislike her that much, then I don’t think she is a good model to sell any product. I think to be a successful commercial model, you need to have a likable character and look natural. This girl makes me wants to throw the product she sells at the tv raher than buying the bl@@dy product.

Also, I think the only real her I saw was when they announced the winner and she left without congratulating the winner but with one of the most spiteful smile. That probably was the most honest thing I have seen of her.

 

Paranoid February 4, 2007

Filed under: General — urnn @ 2:17 pm

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I get all paranoid when I see an asian girl with white expat in Hong Kong.

This morning I saw one couple, a Filipino  girl and a French guy and his friends having brunch in a Lebanese restaurant.  The girl looked very happy and hopeful (about their possible long term relationship, I think) while the guy looked pretty smug to me.  I overheard the conversation and felt quite upset about it. The ‘friend’ asked the girl if his friend is dirty behind closed doors. If I were her, I would have got up and leave or say some nasty thing for him to think about. It was disrespectful of him.  

At the end of the meal, I heard this french guy said to his friends in french that they should be leaving soon but not with the girl.  How rude! Poor girl, she was sitting there not knowing what they were saying!

I felt sorry and annoyed with the girl at the same time.  I, of course, have no time for these boys. I’m not sure if it was the way she dressed (provocative) or the way she carried herself made men treated her like that. Or these guys were just pure bustard and think that they are kings in Asia!

Then I looked back at myself. I am half European and Asian, but I have nevered had anyone treated me that way. I’m too pround to let them do that. I understand that the girl might not necessary be a good girl but I still see her as naive and has less choice in life than the men.  And I am annoyed that I can not help being paranoid out of the sudden that people might see me in the same ‘category’ as the girl.  don’t dress like her or share the same character, but the fact that I love to top up my tan by the pool might not help the matter much!

My husband kept reassuring me that I don’t look at all like that. But I’m not happy about it.

When I saw them said good bye in front of the restaurant, I felt sad. The girl looked in love and the guy looked like he can not wait to leave. Obviously she was totally oblivious to this fact.

I hope that she will not be disappointed and he will call as promised. On the other hand, I don’t.

 

Jade and The ‘Bad’ Brother February 3, 2007

Filed under: TV and Film — urnn @ 1:30 pm

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I feel so sorry for Jade who had to go into the rehab because of the pressure after she came out of the Big Brother house. Jade is poorly educated, everyone knows that, Big Brother’s producer knows that. She was a ‘crack baby’ born in Bermondsey, her father was in and out of jail throughout her life, her mother is a drug addict.  She had no one to educate her.  Here comes ‘clever’ Big Brother who carefully planted Jade in the program along with her mother and her boyfriend whom her mother doesn’t like. If that doesn’t guarantee the potential conflict enough, they tossed in a few more potential people for conflict just in case. Then the ’sophisticated’ Channel 4 watched her walked into the big brother house and fall into the trap which everyone knows she will, and she did. And then they pointed the spotlight on Jade as if it is a surprise that the poor schooled girl who speaks her mind lost her temper in there. Imagine being under the artificial pressure environment 24 hours a day for as long as she was in there. Channel 4 joined in and pointed their fingers to the Big Brother and Jade, tried to look innocent. Well, who approved the show to go on air, may I ask?   Yes, I agree that Jade was a bully in there but I don’t believe she is a racist. She is half black herself as far as I know. To me, Michael Richards is a racist, Mel Gibson is a racist, Jade isn’t. She is just naive to call Indian people Pumpadum. But I think she doesn’t even know it can be interpreted as racism. In fact I think there is undercurrent racism in
England anyway.  
In my opinion, Jade is a victim. Big Brother is to blame. They twisted what used to be a straight forward program into something nasty.  The program Big Brother takes its name from Nineteen Eighty-Four and a similarly named figure is big mama — the informal name for the Internet censor on web boards in
China. “Big Brother” is a character in Nineteen Eighty-Four, in the society that  everybody is under complete surveillance by the authorities. The people are constantly reminded of this by the phrase “Big Brother is watching you”, which is the core “truth” of the propaganda system in this state. The program became popular because majority of English people can relate the glass ceiling and the glass walls in their lives to the low ceiling and the physical boundary in Big Brother program.

But again, they have gone too far his time. They should just go back to its original form and let people in there react to how they react without any stupid lights, alcohol influence and carefully plotted plan. The program has lost its innocence.

They make a silly girl’s life hell in return with more interest to the program. The real nasty cruel people are the producer and the channel 4 in my opinion. 

 

Valentine’s Day February 3, 2007

Filed under: Art, Culture and Architecture, General — urnn @ 2:12 am

My yet another light hearted letter to the editor of HK Magazine…….

Dear HK,

I am trying to find a nice restaurant that doesn’t do set menu or over charge for a meal for two on the Valentine’s Day. But it is next to impossible!

Valentine’s Day seems to be about buying and selling of gifts, roses, cards, expensive gifts, dinners, going to disco, movie, it turns out to be a big commercial event.

In our high pressure society, is it possible to keep romance alive between couples without money getting in the way?

Mind you if you play with the spelling of the word ‘rose’ you will get ‘Eros’ which is the name of Greek god of love and sexual desire.

So may be we meant to buy the overpriced rose and expect the expected!

 

Nordic Party! February 2, 2007

Filed under: General — urnn @ 6:06 am

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I went to the Nordic Ball in Korea last week. I had a great time there, got to dress up in my full length gown and see my sister and her family. Most importantly I got to see my little nephews….. 

They lived in Korea for almost 2 years now, the term is for 4 years. They were in Paris before moving to Korea, so it is a big change for them. Originally her husband is from Finland, so my nephews began their education in Helsinki.

Recently there was an article comparing the school system in England and in Finland.

Finnish children start comprehensive school at the age of seven- only for half days, while the English children start at around five years old – full day. In Finland, all basic education materials are free of charge for the children, they also have longer holidays than in the UK, including a 10-week break in the summer.

In the last international education league tables, produced by the OECD, Finland’s 15 year olds were judged to have the highest standards of literacy in the world.

Perhaps it’s time to stop pushing the chilren too young too hard and starts encourage the children to ‘enjoy’ learning and be ‘happy’ to go to school, to participate in a group learning system rather than competing among each other.

My nephews are naturally slower than other kids in the international school in Korea, but their parents are not pushing them hard to compete with their friends at school. They are bright kids, but most importantly kind and loving.

They play sports, they sing, they dance, they laugh. They know they will not be there more than 4 years and eventually they will go back to Finland.  So what is the point of making their lives a nightmare??